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Rita

Thursday Table, since March

MC

Birthday · 5 September

The tiramisu

Via Triozzi1802 Greenville Ave, Dallas

She has ordered it every birthday for four years.

Severe peanut allergy, nothing from a kitchen that fries.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Check-In Call
  • Prayer
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Rita

Thursday Table, since March

MC

Birthday · 5 September

Jollof and plantain

Suya Spot9090 Skillman St, Dallas

The one place in Dallas that does it the way her mother did.

Severe peanut allergy, nothing from a kitchen that fries.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Check-In Call
  • Prayer
$15–40Uber EatsAct of care →

Rita

Thursday Table, since March

MC

Birthday · 5 September

A voice note, not a text

She keeps them. She has said so more than once.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Check-In Call
  • Prayer
Costs nothingAct of care →

Thomas

Dallas, joined last week

Birthday · 3 December

A flat white, oat

Ascension Coffee1621 Oak Lawn Ave, Dallas

  • Errand Run
  • Lend something
  • Week of Groceries
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Thomas

Dallas, joined last week

Birthday · 3 December

Somebody to walk White Rock Lake with

Saturday mornings. He has been going alone.

  • Errand Run
  • Lend something
  • Week of Groceries
Costs nothingAct of care →

Thomas

Dallas, joined last week

Birthday · 3 December

Egusi and pounded yam

Suya Spot9090 Skillman St, Dallas

He has not found anywhere here that does it right. Suggestions welcome.

  • Errand Run
  • Lend something
  • Week of Groceries
$15–40Uber EatsAct of care →

Joan

Thursday Table, since March

friend

Birthday · 8 April

Anything with peonies in it

Dr Delphinium5806 W Lovers Ln, Dallas

Her late husband brought them on Fridays.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Visit
  • Week of Groceries
$40–100their siteAct of care →

Joan

Thursday Table, since March

friend

Birthday · 8 April

A handwritten card

She still writes them. Nobody writes back.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Visit
  • Week of Groceries
Costs nothingAct of care →

Joan

Thursday Table, since March

friend

Birthday · 8 April

Anything with a cello in it

She played until her wrists gave out.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • Visit
  • Week of Groceries
Costs nothingAct of care →

Pia

Dallas, joined three weeks ago

Birthday · 22 February

Masala dosa, extra sambar

Madras Pavilion2951 W Parker Rd, Plano

Vegetarian. No egg.

  • Favorite Treat
  • Check-In Call
  • Outing Together
$15–40DoorDashAct of care →

Pia

Dallas, joined three weeks ago

Birthday · 22 February

Jalebi, warm

Madras Pavilion2951 W Parker Rd, Plano

Her grandmother's, approximately.

Vegetarian. No egg.

  • Favorite Treat
  • Check-In Call
  • Outing Together
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Gus

Thursday Table, since March

friend

Birthday · 19 January

Anything Wendell Berry

Interabang Books5600 W Lovers Ln, Dallas

He has read them all and rebuys them to give away.

  • Moving Help
  • Ride
  • Host
  • Outing Together
Under $15their siteAct of care →

Gus

Thursday Table, since March

friend

Birthday · 19 January

Cold brew, black

Ascension Coffee1621 Oak Lawn Ave, Dallas

  • Moving Help
  • Ride
  • Host
  • Outing Together
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Dele

Dallas, since 2019

friend

Birthday · 21 September

Suya, extra yaji

Suya Spot9090 Skillman St, Dallas

Fridays, traditionally.

  • Airport Pickup
  • Visit
  • Prayer
$15–40Uber EatsAct of care →

Dele

Dallas, since 2019

friend

Birthday · 21 September

Someone to watch the match with

Arsenal. He is aware this is a lot to ask.

  • Airport Pickup
  • Visit
  • Prayer
Costs nothingAct of care →

Ada

Dallas, joined in June

Birthday · 30 July

Malva pudding

Bisous Bisous Pâtisserie3700 McKinney Ave, Dallas

Nowhere in Dallas has it. She would settle for anything with custard.

  • Favorite Dinner
  • Check-In Call
  • Prayer
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Ada

Dallas, joined in June

Birthday · 30 July

A song, sent with no explanation

She has a playlist of them going back years.

  • Favorite Dinner
  • Check-In Call
  • Prayer
Costs nothingAct of care →

Wes

Dallas, since 2021

Anniversary · 14 June

Brisket, moist end

Cattleack Barbeque13628 Gamma Rd, Dallas

He is particular and he knows it.

  • Fix-It Help
  • Lend something
  • Airport Pickup
$15–40DoorDashAct of care →

Wes

Dallas, since 2021

Anniversary · 14 June

A bag of good coffee beans

Full City Rooster1810 S Akard St, Dallas

He grinds them himself and will tell you about it.

  • Fix-It Help
  • Lend something
  • Airport Pickup
$15–40their siteAct of care →

Priya

Dallas, joined in May

Birthday · 14 October

Masala chai, properly made

Chai Wallah5560 W Lovers Ln, Dallas

Not the syrup kind. She will know.

No beef, no pork.

  • Check-In Call
  • Favorite Treat
  • Outing Together
Under $15DoorDashAct of care →

Priya

Dallas, joined in May

Birthday · 14 October

Company at the Thursday market

She goes alone and would rather not.

  • Check-In Call
  • Favorite Treat
  • Outing Together
Costs nothingAct of care →

Sol

Dallas, since 2017

Remembrance · 2 November

Marigolds, in October

Dr Delphinium5806 W Lovers Ln, Dallas

For the ofrenda. It matters more than she lets on.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • 3-Hour Babysitting
  • Prayer
$15–40their siteAct of care →

Sol

Dallas, since 2017

Remembrance · 2 November

Barbacoa, Sunday morning

El Come Taquería2513 N Fitzhugh Ave, Dallas

Early. Before church early.

  • Home-Cooked Meal
  • 3-Hour Babysitting
  • Prayer
$15–40Uber EatsAct of care →

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