Thursday Table, since March
Birthday8 April
A day and a month. No year is stored, so no age is ever shown.
What would land
Costs nothing
A handwritten card
She still writes them. Nobody writes back.
Costs nothing
What Joan does
You and Joan are friends, which is one tie held by both of you rather than two. It is why some of their dates show up on your "Coming up" and why they can find you under Friends on the board.
“Please do not fuss. A card is plenty.”
One act they would do for you, one you would do for them. Both of you have to agree. Everything else stays on the open marketplace.
One thing, for Joan. Joan does not have to ask, and you do not have to guess.
What would land
Something you do
The things you already said you give. None of this is an exchange, and none of it needs a need posted first.
Joan also asked: A tap that will not stop dripping
You pay the restaurant, not us, their checkout, your card. Joan gets a link and puts in their own address, so you never learn where they live. Nothing about what it cost is kept afterwards, and Joan never sees a price at all.